Bible on the Dresser, Condoms in the Drawer: God’s opinion of Premarital Sex.

When you have sex with someone you’re not married to, you are tossing the gift of your body and purity away. Guilt, shame and regret are the results of this union-not love and not happiness.

The Self problem

In his book, Manhood in the Making, anthropologist David Gilmore claimed that “Manhood is the defeat of childhood narcissism.” In other words, you become a man when you can think beyond yourself to see the needs/desires of others. I love kids but any parent/caregiver will be the first to tell you that children often focus... Continue Reading →

Marriage Mondays #4

Marriage Monday Tip #4 Remember your spouse on anniversaries and birthdays: Even a simple note or card can make the day a special one. If you forget,  go out of your way to make it up to your spouse. Have a great week!

Marriage Mondays #3

Marriage Monday Tip #3 Don’t let romantic relationships from the past resurface in the present on Facebook or other social media platforms. This jeopardizes the trust in your marriage and can lead to some serious problems. Have a fabulous week!

Marriage Mondays #1

Marriage Monday Tip #1: Show respect and admiration for your spouse in a public setting. Here is the beginning of a series that will include a marriage tip every Monday! Please share, like, and follow to keep up with Loftforum! I will still post my usual weekly articles. Have a great week everyone!

Is Social Media a Poison to Healthy Marriages?

Has your marriage or other relationships been affected by social media/modern devices? Are there any rules that couples can implement in their home about such devices/media to keep "connected" with each other? I would love to hear your responses! Please share in the comment box below.  

Why Do Compliments Matter?

Why is complimenting your spouse an important element of having a successful marriage? 1. Intimacy Stays Ignited - After some time, couples can take each other for granted. Giving compliments lets a spouse know that what they are doing or how they look is being noticed. Giving a simple or poetic compliment can work to... Continue Reading →

Your Best Marriage Advice

What was the best marriage advice or quote that has helped you the most? Reply in the comment box below. Share this question or your favorite article from my site on Facebook and Twitter with friends and family! Let's talk!

How Do You Show Love?

There are many opinions about what actions or behaviors show love. Share yours in the comment box below! Think: What do you do that makes your spouse feel loved?  What does your spouse do that makes you feel loved?

Why Can’t Women Say What They Mean?

"Why can't women just say what they mean?" Many men have asked this question. Why does it seem that women say one thing but mean something else? This causes frustration, anger, and sometimes tears. The truth is that while men use a very direct form of communication, women use many forms of indirect communication. She... Continue Reading →

Reflections

Have you ever counted how many times you looked at yourself in a mirror during the course of any given day? Have you ever stopped to look at yourself? I mean REALLY look, not a glance..a LOOK. No doubt you may think about how you wish this were different, maybe that your nose wasn't that... Continue Reading →

Appropriate Sex

Is sex important? Absolutely! Marital sex is one of the most important part of our lives! Yet, we don't talk about it as often as we should. People tell jokes about it, love to see it in movies, or read explicit scenes in books but hardly talk about the appropriate kind of sex. Why is... Continue Reading →

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