While sex should be viewed as an intimate bond between husband and wife, it should never be used as a prize or viewed as a game.
Withholding sex from your spouse doesn’t bring on positive feelings. Instead, it increases feelings of resentment, anger, and negativity. That doesn’t sound like a recipe for a positive marriage, does it?
If sex is important to your spouse, it should be important to you too.
Sex creates a bond in a marriage between husband and wife because they are connecting emotionally, spiritually, and physically. It should not be something that is earned or given as a reward for favors.