Having a hard time deciding what to wear because you want someone other than your spouse to notice you?
If you’re dressing with this purpose in mind what are your motives for doing so? Are you trying to get attention from the opposite sex? Is your spouse not noticing the way you look or the benefits of your hard work at the gym? Does your spouse seem distant?
Gently bring up your feelings to your spouse without accusing or yelling at them. Perhaps they’ve had a lot on their minds and also felt neglected by you, causing them to withdraw. Talk openly about your feelings and how you can meet each other’s need.
Dressing to attract someone other than your spouse will lead you towards the path of unfaithfulness. Dress to impress your spouse—no one else.
When you dress with intentions of attracting another, you may be putting someone else’s marriage in danger.
The Bible tells us:
“But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Matthew 5:28 ESV)
Dress yourself so that you don’t cause someone other than your spouse to desire you sexually. Keep that sexy outfit for your spouse’s eyes only.