Most people, if you ask them, don’t plan on having an affair. However, there are certain behaviors that lead people towards this downward path.
While some behaviors may seem innocent and insignificant, they can often lead to a much bigger issue.
The behavior we’ll talk about today is: Confiding in someone of the opposite gender.
A great question to think about in regards to this issue is “Can I confide everything to my spouse?” If your answer is no or you’re not sure if you can, then there needs to be higher trust levels in your marriage.
Confiding in someone of the opposite gender outside of your family makes you vulnerable. When he or she gives you their shoulder to cry on and/or embraces you, it may lead to something more intimate. If you have a problem, you should be able to talk about it with your spouse.
I firmly believe that couples need to be open and honest about their feelings with each other.
Your spouse should be your best friend, supporter, and the one you turn to when you feel troubled.