Marriage Monday Tip #1:
Show respect and admiration for your spouse in a public setting.
Here is the beginning of a series that will include a marriage tip every Monday!
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Fearless Marriage 
There is nothing more painful to see than to watch a wife put down her husband (or vice versa).
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Yes..also this affects the self esteem and trust levels within the marriage.
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Yes! ☺☺
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Love it! There is one thing that really pains my heart, and that is to see a woman demasculate her husband in public. It just lets you know, she’s probably 10 times worse at home! Great post 🙌🏼
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It really doesn’t benefit anyone to complain or put down a husband. If a woman wants to let her husband know how she feels she needs to find the correct way to communicate her needs/desires to him.
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Totally agree! After almost fifty years married I can say I wish someone had told me this —drilled it into me even! — at the beginning. Not just “don’t put the other down” but also “say things to build them up.”
The old cliches are true: love does cool if not tended and what goes around comes around. I feel the road could have been much smoother all these years if we’d taken care of some of these (as I thought at the time) “minor details.”
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Congratulations on your 50th anniversary!
You are right..many times these “minor details” become a big problem if left unresolved.
I remember saying a negative comment about my husband in public in our early years of marriage and felt so horrible afterwards that I have never done it since. If I have something I’d like him to change then I should let him know.
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We’re not quite to fifty yet. Married in Aug 1970. but the years are zipping by!
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